Get Rid of Your Negative Nancies
01.03.2017
You ever decide to stop talking to someone for whatever reason and then just immediately regret it afterwards. For instance two weeks later you just decide you want to reconnect so you try to and then you fail because that person is hurt that you dropped them. Your a little annoyed that they don't answer but at the same time you think it's for the best.
Time goes by and you still don't receive any kind of response. It has been three weeks and now it's your birthday but you still don't receive anything despite reaching out again on your birthday. You decide your finally done with that person. You decide to delete their number and anything that you could use to reconnect to that person.
The next day they reply and you don't know how to feel. Angry, Upset, Happy, or Confused. Option D confused is exactly how you feel so you reply on the off chance that maybe you do want this person back in your life despite writing them off only yesterday. Your replies to this conversation are very short. You're buying time until you know what you want to do with this person.
You think back to something you've known about this person for a little while. Something you've look past but that always been an issue. This person has given up on dreams, and doesn't support other peoples dreams. They claim to be more realistic. They claim that you'll never be able to achieve happiness. They believe that you just have to settle and be happy with it.
This is something that you never want to do and never will do. This is something that reminds you as to why you were thinking of dropping this person anyways. You decide to end your conversation with this person and it doesn't end on a good note. You tell them that your going to be a dream chaser and that's how it ends. You delete their number and simply decide to do as you please free of a negative Nancy.
The people that come into your life aren't always meant to stay. Some may even come in and out of your life for various reasons. If a person is only serving as a negative influence you don't need them. I find that most people never achieve their dreams because they never try. If something requires you to give one hundred percent, then don't expect success with fifty percent. Many people will tell you can't do it, but you have to be the person who says you can do it.
You ever decide to stop talking to someone for whatever reason and then just immediately regret it afterwards. For instance two weeks later you just decide you want to reconnect so you try to and then you fail because that person is hurt that you dropped them. Your a little annoyed that they don't answer but at the same time you think it's for the best.
Time goes by and you still don't receive any kind of response. It has been three weeks and now it's your birthday but you still don't receive anything despite reaching out again on your birthday. You decide your finally done with that person. You decide to delete their number and anything that you could use to reconnect to that person.
The next day they reply and you don't know how to feel. Angry, Upset, Happy, or Confused. Option D confused is exactly how you feel so you reply on the off chance that maybe you do want this person back in your life despite writing them off only yesterday. Your replies to this conversation are very short. You're buying time until you know what you want to do with this person.
You think back to something you've known about this person for a little while. Something you've look past but that always been an issue. This person has given up on dreams, and doesn't support other peoples dreams. They claim to be more realistic. They claim that you'll never be able to achieve happiness. They believe that you just have to settle and be happy with it.
This is something that you never want to do and never will do. This is something that reminds you as to why you were thinking of dropping this person anyways. You decide to end your conversation with this person and it doesn't end on a good note. You tell them that your going to be a dream chaser and that's how it ends. You delete their number and simply decide to do as you please free of a negative Nancy.
The people that come into your life aren't always meant to stay. Some may even come in and out of your life for various reasons. If a person is only serving as a negative influence you don't need them. I find that most people never achieve their dreams because they never try. If something requires you to give one hundred percent, then don't expect success with fifty percent. Many people will tell you can't do it, but you have to be the person who says you can do it.
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